Love Is A God Thing
In my last post I commented on the small churches’ parody of the biblical theme of family. I alluded that the family church fails to represent God’s design and function for family. With this post I will explore God’s design for family and its implications for what church is all about.
The dysfunction of a small church family is not hard to understand. Just look in the Old Testament. Simply put, people are broken. Cain murders Abel over religious intolerance. Mankind constructs a tower to strike it rich on a gold claim in heaven. Even among God’s chosen people, family rivalry reoccurs like a cheap used car commercial on late night TV. Isaac favors the man’s man Esau, yet Rachel schemes for the demure Jacob. Jacob makes a better deal with “Monty” Laban for Rebekah over her older sister Leah. Jacob later compounds family issues by openly gifting Joseph with a jacket only whose counterpart could only be found in Liberace’s wardrobe. His brothers sharpen their knives, but settle on humanely selling him into slavery (Did they really want that coat?). All families, even God’s chosen family, are damaged. Church family needs a better way.
Family is more than a combined set of relationships. The greater whole outweighs the sum of its parts. As God reveals himself to us, he is a relationship between three distinct, yet inseparable persons. One could say God defines relationship, particularly family relationships. He has designated himself as the Father with himself, the Son. Notice how Mark in his Gospel describes the unique relationship.
“And a voice came from heaven: "You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased." Mark 1:11 NIV
God’s Father - Son relationship is founded upon mutual love and satisfaction in the other. The Father loves and gives everything to the Son (John 3:35). In giving and receiving, their love for each other grounds trust in the other. The Father out of his love, reveals to the Son what he desires to give (John 5:19-20). The Son never has to second guess what the Father thinks or wants. In love, they communicate to understand. What the Father gives, the Son will keep in his care, cherishing and nurturing the responsibility as his own (John 6:37-38). The Son, out of his love, obeys and serves the Father, even to the point of death (John 10:17). Love rules both their actions. The Son’s service is not performed out of obligation or compulsion, but for the pure love the Son has for the Father. In that love, death can not reign, for the Father in his love for the Son restores life to him (John 10:18).
Now to the point. The love between Father and Son is available to us. Many times we think of salvation in terms of “things” Christ has done for us. We have far too many nouns in our Christian lingo. We are justified. We are cleansed. We are made blameless. We are declared righteous. We will be glorified. All accurately describe our position in Christ to God. Aside from the legal terminology, there is a driving force in our relationship, a Ford Mustang in the garage. We are powerfully loved and genuinely accepted by God.
“You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.” Galatians 3:26-27 NIV
Not to overstate the point, but we are loved at the same depth, height, length, and eternal scope that Jesus is loved by God the Father. God has no hesitations or reservations in his love toward us in Jesus Christ. He does not hold back. He perseveres. He won’t give up. He will complete everything he has purposed for us. He loves us with an almighty, everlasting love. On our side, we are empowered by the Holy Spirit to Love God by the same sacrificial love of Christ. We are drawn to give up our prerogatives, agendas, and personal plans for him. Our hearts cry out yes to God’s desires for us. When we fall we are pulled up. His love buoys us. We are in a sense captured in the alternating current of God’s love. In and out like waves upon a beach, or back and forth like stocks of grain in a breeze, we are shaped into Christ with the flux of God’s love.
God’s revealed love therefore should be the bedrock for how church family relates within itself. Yet, a church is more than the sum total of the love relationships. Love amongst persons in a church is not complete. The Church is designed for a greater purpose. I will give out a hint for next time: love is directed toward the other. Love seeks to invite, include, and incorporate the outsider. Until the next post….